{"id":693,"date":"2025-06-02T10:53:53","date_gmt":"2025-06-02T00:53:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ruralhealth.org.au\/stagingpartyline\/?p=693"},"modified":"2025-06-05T13:18:15","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T03:18:15","slug":"one-family-three-generations-and-a-lifeline-of-support","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ruralhealth.org.au\/partyline\/one-family-three-generations-and-a-lifeline-of-support\/","title":{"rendered":"One Family, Three Generations, and a Lifeline of Support"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

In a small town in regional Western Australia, Ricky-Lee is doing what many rural Australians do – supporting her family through thick and thin, often with little outside help. But when her adult son was diagnosed with schizophrenia after nearly twenty years of uncertainty, it marked a turning point.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe\u2019d been struggling for years,\u201d<\/em> Ricky-Lee says. \u201cWe knew something wasn\u2019t right, but it took so long to get a proper diagnosis. It felt like we were just stuck.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her son now lives across the road from her in an independent home. It\u2019s close enough for support, but still gives him space. He has three children who come to stay during school holidays – visits filled with laughter, love, and the everyday stress of making ends meet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cFeeding three extra mouths and trying to get fuel to pick them up\u2014it gets hard,\u201d <\/em>she explains. \u201cAnd with the cost of everything going up, we needed help.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s when she made the call. It was the first time she\u2019d ever asked for assistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The help came quickly, and it came in the form of a Bush Chaplain – part of the Frontier Services network offering pastoral and practical support to people in rural and remote communities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI rang and he said, \u2018I\u2019ll be driving back through tomorrow – I\u2019ll stop in.\u2019 And he did. Just like that.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

That first visit turned into a lasting connection. Bush Chaplain David Jackson checks in regularly, providing not just food and fuel vouchers when needed, but someone to talk to 0 someone who understands the pressure of supporting a loved one through mental illness, particularly in an isolated area with limited resources.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHe was a huge help to my son,\u201d<\/em> Ricky-Lee says. \u201cHe\u2019s just an easy person to talk to. Calm. Genuine. That makes a big difference.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Her story reflects a broader reality in regional Australia, where community members often step in to fill the gaps left by overstretched health systems. Specialist mental health services are hours away, often requiring travel to Perth or Geraldton. Telehealth can help, but for complex needs, it\u2019s not always enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

David Jackson, a long-time advocate for rural mental health, says many people facing chronic conditions simply grow tired. \u201cThey get worn out travelling back and forth to appointments. Some stop going altogether, choosing instead to stay home and deal with their symptoms – sometimes until it\u2019s too late.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

In Ricky-Lee\u2019s case, having a local connection through the Bush Chaplaincy program has helped maintain stability – for her, her son, and her grandchildren. It\u2019s a lifeline that supports all three generations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThis is more than just about health,\u201d <\/em>she says. \u201cIt\u2019s about being seen, being heard. Knowing someone\u2019s there.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ricky-Lee\u2019s story highlights the importance of place-based, people-focused care. Programs like Frontier Services\u2019 Bush Chaplaincy play a crucial role in preventive care and community wellbeing. They show up when others can\u2019t. They help families cope, regroup, and carry on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In rural and remote areas, community connection isn\u2019t just a comfort – it\u2019s often a key part of keeping people well.<\/p>\n

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